A few years back I was talking or should I say whinging to a friend about a few things that were driving me nuts. She listened attentively for a while and quietly said to me, look, from what I understand, you can't change these things so why not change how you look at them instead? That makes absolute sense, right?
For example, we all talk about the habits we don't like much about our partners and would love them to change, till we have kids who behave exactly like them, then that habit is no longer an issue because we so love that child and we begin to accept the whole package. How about when we are at work and feel as if we are doing a lot while others are having fun? Unfair, isn't it? Well, if we were to change how we look at it, it would be something like this "I am getting paid for this job and I will not look at what others are doing." As hubby always says to me, fault is everywhere and if I want to find something to be angry about its easy, but I don't see it because I am not looking.
Today's outfit I wore to the shops over the weekend. Let me know what you think in the comments box. Thank you for reading and have a lovely week!!!
Top: Forever New
Headscarf: Custom Made
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